Dear Alejandra Azcarate, Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.

So i’m steering away from the usual things that i post on this blog to bring something that just outraged me to high heaven. I usally don’t get upset or phased by things like this but lord help me i almost blew one today. I was on facebook looking though posts when i came across an article posted on a Spanish website called alomujeres.com. Which was posted by Alejandra Azcarate i have no idea who she is i’m guessing thats why she made that post to get her name out there.  I was going to post on there but i decided not to because thats just want they want, to be honest after today i have never ever heard of this website. I will link the article. below.  When i read it i can just hear the mocking tone she was taking while writing the post. She reminded me of those mean girls in highschool who would pick on anyone who looked different.

I went on the site and saw this

 I like the body light, agile and resilient. I identify my genetics and metabolism with an aesthetic without masses, and disproportions reliefs. But also, today I decided to leave my primary perspective of beauty to open my mind and analyze the advantages of being fat. A woman born to be fat or fat must have certain points in its favor that should be highlighted and identified by the flacuchentas not like me.

(Sorry for the translation Spanish does not translate well in english) I thought oh okay this is cool lets see her take, so i read on. Dios Mio, i’m about to lay the smack down on this lady..                                                                                           ..

Click link to see the post: http://www.alomujeres.com/actualidad-y-entretenimiento/columna-alejandra-azcarate#

(Again sorry for the translation)

Sooo because i am layed out in the beach i am suppose to be ashamed according to Alejandra, because i have stretch marks that look like i was attacked by a lion… oh ok….  lets see what else she wrote… Hmmm this is a good one she claims to be a victim….

She stated , I confess that i am part of the victims of this society that bombards us with specific patterns of beauty which thiness is an ideal. No she is not a Victm she is apart of the problem.  She is a bully!

No Alejandra you are not a victim you are a bully, you wrote a post thinking it will not offended people. Well if you look at the comments people have posted on your blog,facebook wall etc.. you have offended many. Do you not know alot of your fans may be plus sized? or did you just forget?…….

It sickens me that we live in a day and age that people still bully people i mean come on its 2012. Why can’t we all just accept each other the way we are? Why do we always have to criticize and have an negative opinion about each other. Why does it have to be Curvy this Thin this real woman this and that?  Why can’t we all just get along? It seems like something so easy to do, but we never even try.

This is my letter to her, maybe she will read it who knows….. This is my Advice to you Abe Lincoln said it best,  Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.
~Abraham Lincoln

Dear Alejandra Azcarate,

Spanish Version:

Esto es lo más ignorante artículo que he leído..Este es un artículo insultante y asqueroso. Usted escribió esto por odio a alguien diferente a ti mismo. Sólo puedo sentir el odio y la repugnancia arrojando de su artículo .. Suena más como una de esas chicas malas en la escuela que recogen en cada uno que es diferente. Ve a buscar una revisión de la realidad sólo porque usted es delgado no te hace una mejor persona. Necesitas una actitud para cambiar Pronto. Estoy muy decepcionado de que el editor de este sitio web, incluso te permiten publicar este artículo Asqueroso … La vergüenza de todos ustedes! Sólo para educar ya que no han tenido escolarización previa a este post … Ser gordo no saludable igual que es una suposición. Haga su investigación, pero no dejes que la primera cosa que ignoraba que aparece en tu cabeza salga usted.  le enseñó Piensa antes de hablar. Este es mi consejo para ti Abraham Lincoln lo dijo muy bien, mejor guardar silencio y ser considerado un tonto que hablar y despejar cualquier duda.

English Version:

This is the most ignorant thing i have ever read, This article is  insulting and disgusting.  I can feel the hatred and disgust spewing from your post. To me you sound like those mean girls that pick on all the lil girls and boys because they are different than you are. Go get a reality check just because you’re thin does not make you a better person.  You need an attitude check!  I am very disappointed that the editor of this website, even allowed you to publish this article.  Shame on you all! Just to educate you a bit,  Being plus size doesn’t mean you are unhealthy that’s just an assumption.  Do your research before putting the first thing that comes to your mouth out there.  I know you were taught you to think before you speak…….This is my Advice to you Abe Lincoln said it best,  Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.

The Post stated above  http://www.alomujeres.com/actualidad-y-entretenimiento/columna-alejandra-azcarate#

Please check out this link to a Hilarious take on What Alejandra said jajaja http://chilingout.blogspot.com/2012/07/las-7-ventajas-de-la-idiotez-homenaje.html

With this all said, i just can hope one day we don’t bash each other weather we are Curvy or Skinny.

Both Sizes are beautiful!

Plus Size Model Poses With Straight Size Model In “Controversial” Spread

I’ve noticed when a plus size women Dares to shed her clothing for a spread it tends to get people’s panties in a bunch. As you can see Plus Size Model Katya Zharkova  snagged an 8-page editorial for PLUS Model Magazine, in which she appears totally naked…and surrounded by captions with controversial statistics. For example: “Twenty years ago the average fashion model weighed 8% less than the average woman. Today she weighs 23% less.” And also: “Most runway models meet the Body Mass Index physical criteria for Anorexia.” I can’t say these are true statistics because i’m not quite sure about them.  But i’m guessing alot of people are calling this a controversial spread because of the shock factor the pictures have made and the statistics shown on them.  *View the rest here*

I loved the spread and the message they were trying to get across that many did not understand.  What i got from it is that a Bigger body is just as beautiful as a smaller body.  And how the fashion industry is destroying the young woman’s psyche, and pushing them the to the extreme.  Either way i have seen some nasty and negative comments on different websites,towards the smaller size women and the plus size woman.

With Comments like Being Skinny is disgusting…The skinny one is ugly and unhealthy! Then the Plus size one is a fat ugly pig and she should lose some weight she must be so unhealthy.

DO you see what was said there? what was similar of the two?  They assumed they both were unhealthy, how have they come to this conclusion because of their outward appearances..  Trying to claim you can tell anything about someone’s actual health by just looking at a photo is ludicrous.  How are we to know they are unhealthy unless we go to a Doctor’s appt with them both. Why do we judge each other so harshly? I cannot assume that the smaller model is Anorexic because i don’t know if she is just by looking at her. Just like if i look at the bigger model and assume she is unhealthy.. I wish we could stop making broad assumptions one way or the other.

A person who is plus size can be healthy just like a smaller person can. They both can be unhealthy too, it’s all about how you take care of your body. you see that word there “YOUR” Remember it is your body do not let anyone tell you there is anything wrong with it, Its yours and only yours.

Are we are just a mean society that have no regards to people’s feelings?  some people feel like they are just helping the other person *oh your just so skinny you should eat a sandwich*  or * Did you ever think of going to the gym or something because you’re looking a bit pudgy* How is this helping anyone? your just messing with a persons self-esteem and making them think there is something wrong with them. Why is it our business how a person chooses to treat their body? If the person is Plus size and is healthy why do we still judge them? Same with a skinny person, if they are healthy what is it to you to open your mouth and tell them they are not…….

I found this quote on the inter webs and i just loved it. its something we all should learn and live by Skinny or Plus size. (sorry about it being in caps it came like that)

MY BODY IS NOT A REPRESENTATION OF MY FAILURES, SINS, OR MISTAKES. MY BODY IS NOT A SIGN THAT I AM IN POOR HEALTH, OR THAT I AM NOT PHYSICALLY FIT. MY BODY IS NOT UP FOR PUBLIC DISCUSSION, DEBATE OR JUDGMENT. MY BODY IS NOT A SIGNAL THAT I NEED YOUR HELP OR INPUT TO MAKE DECISIONS ABOUT MY HEALTH OR LIFE. MY BODY IS THE CONSTANT COMPANION THAT HELPS ME DO EVERY SINGLE THING THAT I DO EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY AND IT DESERVES RESPECT AND ADMIRATION. IF YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF APPRECIATING MY BODY THAT IS YOUR DEFICIENCY, NOT MINE, AND I DO NOT CARE. NOR AM I INTERESTED IN HEARING YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE MATTER SO, IF YOU WANT TO BE AROUND ME, YOU ARE 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES TO KEEP THOSE THOUGHTS TO YOURSELF. IF YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF DOING THAT I WILL LEAVE AND SPEND MY TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO CAN TREAT ME APPROPRIATELY. PLEASE PASS THE GREEN BEANS).~Dances with Fat ♥

Why does must we always compare being plus size to unhealthy? Why do we say Skinner women are all anorexic? We have to stop hating each other and just love one another at the size we are.  Stop Judging,  take a breath and Start Loving the skin you are in!

As i always say You CAN”T  judge a book by its cover without reading the pages first……

Kim Kardashian Slams Plus Size Women…..

Okay I love me some Kim K She is Beauitful, But Not when she does not think before she speaks it Disgusts me.

Kim Kardashian must have been livid when she opened the latest issue of Us Weekly and found out that the magazine is touting her as the new spokesperson for Forever 21′s new “plus-sized” line of clothing for heavier women.

In the magazine, Us Weekly claims that Kim was a fan of the plus-sized duds!

Of course, Kim Kardashian retaliated on her official blog, saying

“I am a huge fan of Forever 21 and I’m very happy they have expanded their line to include a plus-size range, but I am not in that size category and this article makes it sound like I am! I am a curvy girl and I love my curves, but curvy and plus-sized are two very different things. I work really hard to maintain my curves while staying slim and healthy, so to be classed as a “fuller-figured woman” of extra large proportions is a little offensive.

For the record, I am a size 2, not 2XL.”

I Mean i have never read such Immature words come out of her mouth since she Cussed at her mother….. I understand what she said she *may* have said out of anger.. BUT what she said was rude, snide, derogatory and whatever adjective works!  People fail to realize it’s not what you say but how u say it. She could have went about setting the record straight about her “size” without offending anyone else. The remarks she said while “defending” herself was rude, tasteless and very unthoughtful. There’s nothing wrong with being a size 2 but she spoke like there was something wrong with being plus size.  Basically she implied that all plus size woman are Unhealthy and dont workout are your freaking kidding me!!!  I mean i work my tush off in the Gym and im still plus size and am veryyyy healthy than most people… Im really Tired of this Stigma people have of Plus size Women like they are lazy! its Simply Untrue!

How she made it sound is like she would not want to be Plus size like its something Taboo.. Really Kim? Really? I mean i can say soooo many mean things about her etc BUT! … I’m not going to stoop to her Level and Assume things of her or call her out on  her more than Obvious Misleading Comment…. Im going to be a Lady like she should be… Like my mom says Don’t  Think once, Think Twice, think Three times before you speak….. Take those words of Wisdom Kim Kardashian…….  You need them…. 🙂

It’s “Raining Men” For Rihanna And Nicki Minaj….

 

When i heard that Rihanna was asking Nicki MInaj to sing a song with her on her next studio Album LOUD!!  we could not be less surprised — what artist hasn’t worked with Harajuku Barbie in the last year? Still, i couldn’t wait to get our eardrums on the song, and as it turns out, the dancehall reggae tune fits Nicki’s quirkiness perfectly. Still, for a song called “Raining Men”, we’re disappointed there’s no sample from The Weather Girls’ fabulous disco hit. Ah, can’t win ‘em all. Get soaked in the ladies’ jammin’ collab below!
“Fallin’ like the rain, so we ain’t running out / Always raining men, so what you worried about?” sings RiRi.

The track incorporates the children’s nursery rhyme “Eeny Meeny Miny Moe”, which is something that belongs in a song by, say, Willow Smith, not a pop star older than 10-years old. Surprising no one, Nicki steals the show again with her infectious and energetic verse. We’re not bowled over by this one, but because of Nicki’s inclusion, we’re almost definitely betting on this one becoming a single.

Loud drops November 16. what are your thoughts on latest Album By her, folks? Will you be picking it up? Below is the song Hopefully it will be up still 😀 Ciao 😉 ❤

 

Marie Claire’s Writer Hates Fat People.!

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Okay! i love Marie Claire Just like the next girl but when they start Slamming people for the way they Look or how Fat they are is crossing the line thats exactly what….”Maura Kelly” Did! she crossed the line and Marie Claire Editors Condoned her hateful speech because they allowed her to post her Rant!. she is basically saying in her article that Obese People do not have the right to Love or Make-Out with each other because they have Rolls!!!

she thinks that because she was Anorexic she can make these hateful Comments! But that does not make it OK! I feel bad for Maura Kelly Really i do. Cuz do u know how many Plump Coworkers she has!? they will not respect her and even look her way because of what she said she wrote in the heat of the Moment! SMH!

Judge for yourself. Here are some highlights:

“I think I’d be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other … because I’d be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I’d find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair.”

But don’t worry guys, she’s got nothing against fat people! See:

Now, don’t go getting the wrong impression: I have a few friends who could be called plump. I’m not some size-ist jerk. And I also know how tough it can be for truly heavy people to psych themselves up for the long process of slimming down. (For instance, the overweight maintenance guy at my gym has talked to me a little bit about how it seems worthless for him to even try working out, because he’s been heavy for as long as he can remember.)

Because really, if you’re overweight, it’s clearly your fault:

But … I think obesity is something that most people have a ton of control over. It’s something they can change, if only they put their minds to it.

Shame on not only Maura Kelly, but the editor of Marie Claire for allowing this ridiculously pompous article to be published. If more women’s magazines (Marie Claire included) were more about giving women confidence regarding our inner beauty, we might just unite as a sex and work together instead of against each other – as you and I both know, women often do. It’s time women’s magazines step up to the plate and do just that. Because, for now, they aren’t really “women’s magazines” at all. They are simply catalogs likened to the Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous, aren’t they?! here are some of the Comments that Readers Submitted on the site ^.^

One commentor writes:

seriously? you are toxic. and marie claire has just alienated a huge portion of their readership for allowing this insensitive and ridiculous drivel to be published. i hope you, and the editors who let this be published, are fired. you’re not talking about health issues here – you’re using them as an excuse to slam people you don’t like. basically, for you, the bottom line seems to be that overweight people are unlovable and not entitled to be affectionate in public, lest they offend your oh-so-delicate sensibilities. no wonder you’ve never been in love. and, good luck with that NOW that you’ve opened your ignorant, shallow mouth.

Source: marieclaire.com

Another person writes:

I couldn’t even get past the first few paragraphs. I’m sorry you are disgusted by fat people. Sounds like you need to poke your eyes out. That way you won’t have to be “forced” to see things that displease you. You also may need to look up vapid. It’s a pretty accurate description for the little bit of your article I managed to stomach. It’s really not something one should strive for.. How did this ever get past an editor?? I will never buy Marie Claire again. That’s a promise.

Source: marieclaire.com

I can so relate with the comments above i felt the same way. i Personally think they should Remove the Per say Person and Get a New writer cuz clearly the one they Hired is an Hateful person…. Here is a Song Maura kelly should be Listening to! Love just Appreciate the Curves dont hate!

Update: The Editors of Marie Claire Decided to post a new Blog about loving people of size SMH! it doesnt matter the damage is done. Like BP the mess has happened you can try to clean it up put as many PSA’s as u want but at the end of the day,everyone will still know its there and that it still Happened. here is the link on what they wrote.

http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/opinion/fat-people-exist#post_comment

Here is a quote

Public opinion, a vulgar, impertinent, anonymous tyrant who deliberately makes life unpleasant for anyone who is not content to be the average man.

– Dean William R. Inge

5 Things Your Hair Stylist Won’t Tell You! O.O

1. You don’t need to get highlights every time you get your hair done.

The reality is if your hair has been highlighted every time its been colored, the chances of overlapping and over processing are greater than not. Try breaking your base instead of highlights when it’s time for your color touch ups. That way, you’ll give your hair a small break while saving money and looking color fresh.

2. Skipping conditioning treatments at the salon is totally fine.
Conditioning treatments aren’t bad, especially on damaged hair, however, over conditioning with expensive treatments can sometimes leave you with a big bill at check out time. Try requesting the moisturizing conditioners that are complimentary with your shampoo and ask to be sit under the dryer for 5 to 10 minutes. Compare to see if there’s a real difference in the way your hair feels after.

3. It’s OK to mix expensive and cheapo products.
Just because you love a high-end shampoo with a double-digit price tag doesn’t mean you have to use the same brand of conditioner, hairspray, serum, etc. Your stylist might try to push the whole line on you, saying they work best together, but it’s totally fine to save cash by splurging on one haircare item and hitting the drugstore for the rest.

4. Your hair won’t grow faster if you trim it.
But the truth is your hair won’t look as good as you’re growing it out if you let too much time lapse between cuts. So just be sure to tell your stylist you want it to grow longer — that way she can trim only a little bit to keep it healthy, but she’ll know to preserve as much of the length as possible.

 

 

 

 

 

5. You don’t have to shampoo your hair every day if it’s curly or wavy.

The “wash and wear” haircut and the daily shampoo are really only needed if you have really fine hair. If your hair is wavy or curly, it tends to be a little drier, so you really shouldn’t shampoo every day.

Credits and Sources: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/hairstyles-beauty/hair-care/what-your-hair-stylist-wont-tell-you?click=pp Got2b celebrity hair stylist Larry Sims and Redken hairstylist Rodney Cutler… 😀

Miley Cyrus: Who Owns My Heart! Girl whats wrong with you! O.O

WHOA!!! Miley Hold your Horses!! WTF is up with you in that video as much as i like the song! i saw the video and was like this cannot be MILEY CYRUS! the 17 Year Old!!! this video is tooo sexy and sultry. and sexed up! geez miley where are your parents??!! OH WAIT THEY ARE THERE ON SET!!! oK the fact that her parents actually allow her to do these things First go against her So CALLED Beliefs! Her parents Morals! i mean cant they go to jail for exploting a Child!!!!! i mean if she is not old enough  to drive a car by herself or Drink why in the hell is she able to act like a little slut! Don’t get me wrong i love miley(before all the miley fans bash me!) i’ve follwed her for years. but this crosses the line. i mean their is a Difference between SEXY! and SLUTY!.

Is she trying to come out or something! Kissing up on girls. i’m all for gay rights but dang miley what the heck.! its going against everything you belive. i think her parents should grow  A PAIR and let her know she is still a child no matter if she says and i quote she said ” Since i did the movie THE LAST SONG” ive grown up:” wtf!!! a 10year old can go be a part of a movie and can say i grew up that doesnt mean they did! and the reason  it upsets me the most its because she is Throwing around she is a Christian and has morals.. and she is a role model for little girls .. they have a better chance of Pamela Anderson being a better role model for them than Miley Cyrus at least Pamela doesn’t throw around Self righteousness. she is what she is an i respect her for that…like the saying says “ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS” what is MIley showing us????

The Bag Everyone! is Toteing around!!!

Not only are a tons!! of stars a fan of the Biotiful Bag — but it’s also organic and totally green! !!.

Whether they’re running errands, hitting the gym, or just need some extra room to store their stuff, stylish ladies like Kim Kardashian, Carmen Electra, Stephanie Pratt, and Denise Richards have been traveling around town with their Biotiful Bags. Considering it’s both spacious and practical, I’m not surprised to see stars sporting it!!!

Luckily, it isn’t a pricey new fad — made from organic cotton and natural materials and priced at $59 it’s both eco-friendly and affordable. “My Biotiful Bags are stylish and chic, utilizing materials like organic cotton and recycled nylon,” said Colette Guigue, the woman behind the brand. With 25 years in the accessories industry, Colette saw an opportunity to blend fashion with practicality — and she’s established quite a fan base!

Check out which other stars are fans of the bag and scoop up one of your own HERE

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and also can you guys please vote for my freind 🙂 thank you you just vote once per day and thats it 😉 xoxo Ciao!  the link is below..

http://www.exploremodeling.com/Casting/SnorgTees/42600/violet_Moya.aspx

Drew Barrymore Says Being Perfect Is ‘Boring As F**k!!!….

Drew totally opens up in this new interview with Nylonmagazine. She thinks you should just “be yourself,” because anything but that is boring………….

What you see is what you get with Drew Barrymore. The 35-year-old Golden Globe winner graces the August 2010 cover of Nylon magazine and reveals she doesn’t care what YOU think of her!…

“You have to not pretend to be perfect, because that’s not only boring as f**k, but it’s just not real,” she tells the mag. “So I feel so liberated in that way. … I just really want to be true to myself. That’s essential in life. I would never be able to put on a charade. I would totally f**k it up.”….

DREW BARRYMORE IN NYLON’S DENIM ISSUE…

Drew Barrymore is everyone’s golden girl, and not just because of her amazing blonde hair.  The actress and producer made a string of movies we can watch on 24-hour repeat (Never Been Kissed, Whip It, Grey Gardens…), and she still has time to star in the Cover Girl commercials.,…

An Interview on Drew,.. By Holly S.. 🙂

On Being Perfect
“You have to not pretend to be perfect, because that’s not only boring as fuck, but it’s just not real…So I feel so liberated in that way. I just really want to be true to myself. That’s essential in life. I would never be able to put on a charade. I would totally fuck it up.”

On her In-Between Period

“I had a big gap in my life where I wasn’t allowed to work at all because no one would hire me, which was great because I think you need that humility. You have to have everything taken away, or you have to have a major reality check, so that you always appreciate what you have.”

So Drew, where’d you get your jeans?
“I never have time for shopping… I’ve been wearing the same fucking pair of jeans for 10 years.”

Drew, who stars in the upcoming film Going the Distance with her long time BF Justin Long, says it was definitely funny seeing Justin get totally naked in the movie.

“It’s funny because usually it’s the girl who’s naked,” she says. “I was like, ‘That’s right, b**ch. The tables are turned!’” LOL

Ciara is Back!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the Southern Peaches 4th Studio album she goes back to when she first started singing…i heard a preview of the album its HOTTTTTT!! here is a taste of it..

xoxo Ciao ❤

Short Shorts the New Fad!

Last summer, they were minuscule.!! This summer, they’ll be microscopic.!!
Booty Shorts Back IN!!! My Eyes Will again Burn Up!!!!!! lol Okay no really There in Again thats awesome u wont see me in them but here are some of the kind of Booty Shorts i would like to see On People ….

Okay Ladies get your Jaws off the Floor!! they are making Guy Short Short’s O.O what do you think? do u like how they would look on guys or would u rather not…see them on guys and would rather girls wear them? Personally I like it on guys where what make su feel comfortable and freaking AH its like a Gazillon Degrees outside we should be lucky there isn’t People running around naked trying to beat the heat i will see things i cant UNSEE! evar!!! lol
Here are the styles on the runway just see how tiny they are!!

Next we are going to see this!
*Shivers* Oh god no! lol hahahahahaha Oh my!! O.O

Okay like i Promised New Music Every week!

Gökhan Özen